I need a place where I can unwind, breathe and relax. There are many things in life which I may not understand, things that may seem unfair, things that may be slapped into your face, families or relatives that may seem to look down on you, but, there is one thing I realise from here..everything has a "may"..or a "seem" which means, it could possibly be wrong..here's a quote from a book I really like," Pretend that every event in your life has a purpose and your disappointments will have a purpose. Every "disaster" in your life is not so much " a disaster" as a situation waiting for you to change your mind about it. We are not here to be punished. We are here to be educated." Happiness comes from concentrating on what you have. not on what is missing. You make the choice to be happy first. Happiness is a daily decision.